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One Cop Holds Transsexual In Custody While Another One Beats The Suspect

Date: Friday, June 20, 2008 - 2:26pm
Keywords: discrimination, sexism, police overkill, United States, duanna johnson

A Memphis police officer is accused of beating up someone under arrest. The person seen being attacked on the tape is a transexual. She says the attack is a hate crime.

Now the FBI is investigating. One officer is off the job, and another is on desk duty.

Duanna Johnson says the officer beat her up after calling her all sorts of names and making fun of her sexuality.

On the videotape you see Johnson being attacked. One officer is holding Johnson back, while another throws punches.

More Villanizing Men

Date: Monday, October 8, 2007 - 1:10pm
Keywords: discrimination, sexism

A lot of people say, "Screw those people staring at you, do the right thing and give the kid a hug/pick him up and dust him off/help find her mommy."

On the balance, screw that. Maybe it'll be a nice interaction, maybe you'll get a glare, that part kind of washes out. Then you factor in stuff like the McMartin Preschool and Kern County, and you realize that, with nothing more than a pointing finger and an overly helpful interrogator saying, "Show me on the doll where he touched you," your life can be pretty much over, even if you are eventually cleared. The intangible of a five-second warm and fuzzy from an interaction with a child weighs nothing against it. One of the reasons I gave up tutoring children, despite the benefits to kids, was the increasing amount of this nonsense. No more babysitting, either, even if the kids ask.

It's just part and parcel of me walking to my car at night, only to notice that a woman fifteen feet ahead of me and a little to the right has quickly fumbled out her pepper mace. And not just once, either.

From a discussion on this article.

Too Many Men Means No Polygamy

Date: Monday, October 8, 2007 - 1:02pm
Keywords: discrimination, sexism, polygamy

Over the last six years, hundreds of teenage boys have been expelled or felt compelled to leave the polygamous settlement that straddles Colorado City, Ariz., and Hildale, Utah.

Disobedience is usually the reason given for expulsion, but former sect members and state legal officials say the exodus of males — the expulsion of girls is rarer — also remedies a huge imbalance in the marriage market. Members of the sect believe that to reach eternal salvation, men are supposed to have at least three wives.

The problem with each men needing three wives is that you need a one to three male to female population ratio, but we all know that the chances of a newborn having a y chromosome are 50%. In other words, two thirds of the male population needs to be remove from the equation.

Villanizing Men

Date: Monday, October 8, 2007 - 1:01pm
Keywords: discrimination, sexism

These days, if Rian Romoli accidentally bumps into a child, he quickly raises his hands above his shoulders. "I don't want to give even the slightest indication that any inadvertent touching occurred," says Mr. Romoli, an economist in La Cañada Flintridge, Calif.

Ted Wallis, a doctor in Austin, Texas, recently came upon a lost child in tears in a mall. His first instinct was to help, but he feared people might consider him a predator. He walked away. "Being male," he explains, "I am guilty until proven innocent."

In San Diego, retiree Ralph Castro says he won't allow himself to be alone with a child -- even in an elevator.

Last month, I wrote about how our culture teaches children to fear men. Hundreds of men responded, many lamenting that they've now become fearful of children. They said they avert their eyes when kids are around, or think twice before holding even their own children's hands in public.

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The result of all this hyper-carefulness, however, is that men often feel like untouchables. In Cochranville, Pa., Ray Simpson, a bus driver, says that he used to have 30 kids stop at his house on Halloween. But after his divorce, with people knowing he was a man living alone, he had zero visitors. "I felt like crying at the end of the evening," he says.

What About Sexism?

Date: Sunday, October 7, 2007 - 9:26pm
Keywords: discrimination, sexism, equality

When Robert Trigaux, the St. Petersburg Times business editor, tried an experiment and filled out an online application for a price quote for auto insurance from Geico, the results were shocking and troubling. In two separate tries he used exactly the same criteria except for the inquirer's occupation and level of education. The guy without a high school diploma and a janitor's job was given a quote that was $440 per year more than the Ph.D. computer executive.

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Proxies for race and poverty should have no place on an actuarial table. If that means spreading risk to a wider customer base, it is a small price to pay for fundamental fairness.

What about charging males (who are technically a minority) the same as females? At least you have a degree of control over how much education you have, whereas your sex is determined at birth (for the most part).

Tolerance

Date: Wednesday, December 6, 2006 - 9:15pm
Keywords: me, John Lennon, racism, sexism, equality

This issue seems to be popping up a lot in my life as of late, and I want to set the record clear. I'm not a big fan of hate. Hate is defined by Wikipedia as "an emotion of intense revulsion, distaste, enmity, or antipathy for a person, thing, or phenomenon; a desire to avoid, restrict, remove, or destroy its object." Wanting to destroy something is pretty intense. I'm most certainly not a fan of bigots, "people who hates opinions, lifestyles, or identities differing from their own."

If you get to know me and it turns out that you're just not a fan and don't like me, that's fine. I'm OK with that. I'm not everyone's cup of tea. What I am not OK with is someone prejudging me and disliking me because of my skin color (though I am white so this is not something I have to worry about often), my sex (though I am male), my height (though I am tall), my intelligence or anything else. I understand that these attributes will often give me an unfair leg up in life. And I will forever question if I got something because of the initial impression I made that so happened to include all of the above or did I get it because I earned it. It does bother me at work that when I answer the phone, it is automatically assumed that I am an attorney because I am male. Yes, things are unfair and people need to stop being so damn judgmental.

A post was made to MetaFilter, Why is reverse racism ok? that seems to have stirred up some discussion. I don't want to address the discussion that ensued, but rather the question posed. I think the question should have omitted the word reverse. Why? Because I racism is not defined as whites hating blacks. Rather, it is defined as "a hatred or intolerance of another race or other races." The question should have been "Why is racism ok?" and the answer is it's not. I have never been a fan of exclusionary groups as I strongly believe they serve to polarize society.

I also believe that you can be pro-something without being anti-something else. You can be pro-black, that is you can believe blacks are equal, have rights, should be treated like everyone else, etc without being anti-white. The second you become anti-anything, you're just another hate group. You can be pro-female without being anti-male. You can be pro-religion without being anti-science.

Don't try and put someone else or someone else's ideas down. Make yours better. There is far too much hate in this small world. We've all got to learn to live together. Segregation, exclusionary meetings, anti-something people need to understand tolerance:

Tolerance is respect, acceptance and appreciation of the rich diversity of our world's cultures, our forms of expression and ways of being human. Tolerance is harmony in difference.

We view tolerance as a way of thinking and feeling — but most importantly, of acting — that gives us peace in our individuality, respect for those unlike us, the wisdom to discern humane values and the courage to act upon them.

John Lennon had it right all along when he said:

You say you want a revolution
Well, you know
We all want to change the world
You tell me that it's evolution
Well, you know
We all want to change the world
But when you talk about destruction
Don't you know that you can count me out
Don't you know it's gonna be all right
All right, all right

You say you got a real solution
Well, you know
We'd all love to see the plan
You ask me for a contribution
Well, you know
We're doing what we can
But when you want money
for people with minds that hate
All I can tell is brother you have to wait
Don't you know it's gonna be all right
All right, all right

Yes, the world needs to be made better, but making it better by knocking others down is not the way to do it. We don't need more people with "minds that hate" but instead, we need more tolerance.

Imagine all the people
Sharing all the world

You may say I'm a dreamer
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you'll join us
And the world will live as one

Feel free to disagree, that's your right as a free-thinking individual.

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